Assumptions

Okay I made an assumption just like I keep telling people not to do. But it happened all the same. I assumed that when my friend suggested we go to something at the Edinburgh Fringe that I could trust his judgement to pick something good. Now, to be fair to him, he...

Regrets

In my latest newsletter (read it here ) I talked about regrets and made a statement near the beginning of the article about the choices we have. “In  the rich individualistic world that many of us live in, we have the possibility for many choices.” One of...

Its over

As I look out of the window this morning, I see hardly any snow at all. The overnight rain has thrown off the white blanket. Its over. For now. Its a bit like Christmas – for the last few weeks the anticipation of the day has been vying with the snow for column...

No. Just no.

I’ve just read Jana Kemp’s book, No! How One Simple Word Can Transform Your Life, and thought it might be helpful to mention since a number of people I have talked to recently have mentioned an inability to say No! or even just no. First of all, its useful...